What was the general view on women drinking alcohol (and becoming intoxicated) during the 19th century in the US and did they become alcoholics in about the same extent to which men did?
Before Prohibition, in the USA public social drinking tended to be carried out in saloons. These were places where it was not socially acceptible for women to be. Thus the only women you would generally find in a saloon were...non-socially acceptible women. Entertainers, prostitutes, etc.
As a result, alcoholisim was viewed as an almost entirely male behavior. Where it impacted with women was when their men spent all of their time and/or money in saloons rather than taking care of the family, and when they came home drunk. I'm not saying this was nessecarily the reality, but this was the vision of the situation pushed by the Anti-Saloon league and the Woman's Christian Temperance Union.
Because of this, women were viewed as a reliable voting block for prohibitionists, which is why the ASL and its allies pushed women's sufferage in the states, and also pushed for (and eventually got) the 19th Ammendment giving women the right to vote nationwide. We like to think that men suddenly became enlightened or something, but the honest truth is that crass alcohol politics played a vital part in the achivement of women's sufferage in the USA.
Ironicly, with the passage of prohibition saloons were essentially outlawed, and were replaced with speakeasies, where women were every bit as socially accepted as men. So one of the unintended consequences of prohibition was the general spread of social alcohol consumption (and thus alcoholisim) to women.
All of this is covered in wonderful detail in Last Call: The Rise and Fall of Prohibition. If you are interested in this subject, I can't reccomend that book highly enough.