The blog post Falsehoods Programmers Believe About Names – With Examples claims that:

There was an isolated culture in which no one had names – they referred to everyone in relative terms, such as “my mother’s eldest sister”.

Is this true? Which culture is the author talking about?

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    Hello, I don't know but maybe this question has a biggest chance of having a conclusive answer in Skeptiks SE.
    – Bregalad
    Oct 7, 2019 at 12:08
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    @Bregalad Erm, why? History.SE is equally good, if not better, at answering questions.
    – yannis
    Oct 7, 2019 at 12:32
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    I remember in "Spirit Lake" by Mackinley Kantor (author of Pulitzer Prize-winning "Andersonville"), it was mentioned that among the Sioux characters, it was considered impolite to refer to someone by name; they used, e.g., "that one". Both books seem extremely well-researched. A brief search yielded something along these lines at warpaths2peacepipes.com/native-american-indian-names Oct 7, 2019 at 20:06
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    @vsz Not only there — someone from Cameroon told me that traditionally, babies in her culture aren't given names before their 1st birthday, and sometimes only some years later.
    – gerrit
    Oct 8, 2019 at 7:59
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    The Late Roman Republic and Early Empire did not give personal names to women. They would be known by the female form of their father's nomen (family name), along with an ordinal number (first, second, etc.) akfir eldest daughter, second-oldest, etc. If further clarity were necessary, you could add "daughter of" followed by the father's given name.
    – C Monsour
    Oct 11, 2019 at 18:18

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This would seem to be a piece of folklore.

Anthropologists have not found a single society which does not use personal names in some form; they are a human universal. However, the forms that these names take and the ways in which they are bestowed and used vary between cultures.

Source: Abstract from Ellen S. Bramwell, 'Personal Names and Anthropology'. In Carole Hough (ed.), 'The Oxford Handbook of Names and Naming' (2016)

William Bright (1928-2006), formerly a linguist at the University of California and then at the University of Colorado, also covered this in a 2003 article What IS a Name? Reflections on Onomastics:

There is a piece of folklore current among anthropologists regarding the question of whether personal names exist in all societies. So far I have not been able to trace this to a printed source, but it is somewhat as follows: Somewhere in the world there is a society where people live in very small, isolated communities. In such a community, people have no personal names; i.e., individuals have no name which other people use to refer specifically to them. Instead, they are referred to by descriptive expressions, e.g., ‘the blacksmith’ or ‘the man who lives by the stream’. A woman will be referred to as, e.g., ‘the blacksmith’s wife’. Children will be referred to by expressions such as ‘the blacksmith’s elder daughter’; when this daughter gets married, she may be referred to as, e.g., ‘the wife of the man who lives by the stream’.

He concludes that no such society exists, that

any anthropologist who might have reported such a community was misled by the operation of taboos on uttering personal names. I suggest, in fact, that the use of personal names, having varying levels of descriptiveness, is a sociolinguistic universal of the human species.

Bright points out that

in non-literate societies, where names remain unwritten, there is greater variety in naming customs (cf. the anthropological studies in Tooker 1984). A child may be given a “real” name at birth, but this may be kept a secret throughout life. Elsewhere, such a “real” name may be publicly known, but not used for everyday purposes; most of the time, a nickname—perhaps descriptive, e.g., Shorty—may be used. A person may be called by different names at different periods of life, or by different people under changing conditions. Use of certain names under particular circumstances may be forbidden by religious taboo; or then again, such names may be replaced by descriptive nicknames. Because of these factors, it may be difficult for the outside investigator of such a society to determine what a person’s “real” name is, or even what name is commonly used in the community; taboos are likely to be especially strict when one is talking to outsiders.

An Australian Institute of Family Studies (AIFS) article Aboriginal families in Australia (1995) by Professor Colin Bourke and Eleanor Bourke illustrates how confusing the issue of names can be:

In many Aboriginal societies personal names were rarely used. People were addressed by kinship terms. Some were referred to as being someone else's son or daughter. In such societies personal names were seen as being part of that person and were used with discretion. This was often manifested by a deceased person's personal name being removed from that language for some considerable time. Most languages had a word meaning 'no name' which was used to refer to those persons who had the same name as a recently deceased person.

Also, Wulf Schieffenhövel's article Reactions to cultural change (1997) in the journal Civilisations relates the problems the author encountered with the Eipo in the Highlands of West-New Guinea:

Each of them also seemed to answer my question: «An si?», what's your name? It was only later when I had mastered the first steps into this highly structured language, that I realized what these names meant: Na-si-gumnye, Na-si-walwal, Na-si-urang, «I-the-one-who-has-no-name», «My-name-I-don't-know', «I-am-somebody-else». To give away one's dibe si, the «real name», exposes oneself to possible harm.

Other studies from other regions of the world also show the importance and sometimes confusing (to outsiders) use of names: the Ilongot in the Philippines (where people "acquire and lose" names during their lifetime), the Kadayan in Brunei and Malaysia, societies in Central Brazil, and the Mohawk people. These studies illustrate the "diversity of the processes involved in naming and using names".

Stephen Wilson, in The Means of Naming: A Social and Cultural History of Personal Naming in Western Europe (UCL Press, 1998), outlines just how important names have always been in societies, even though (as he notes elsewhere) historical documents have often not recorded them.

In all societies...and more so in complex ones, a single individual is known by a variety of names depending on the role he or she is playing and the milieu of reference. So there will be one name used by close relatives of origin, another by spouses and lovers, another by children, another by friends, another in public, another at work, and so on. Again, names here serve as a kind of social map, placing individuals in the broader multi-dimensional landscape.

Wilson's primary area of study was Western Europe, but he also cites Gregory Bateson's work, Naven (1936), on the Iatmul of New Guinea to show how important names are to both individuals and societies:

Every spell, every song…contains lists of names. The utterances of shamans are couched in terms of names… Marriages are often arranged in order to gain names. Reincarnation and succession are based upon the naming system. Land tenure is based on clan membership and clan membership is vouched for by names.

To summarize, all societies use personal names, but

Names are given to people at different stages of life; they change or remain constant; they contain different elements; they connect with relatives or tribes or they do not; they are used freely or they are kept secret.

Source: Ellen S. Bramwell, 'Personal Names and Anthropology'. In Carole Hough (ed), 'The Oxford Handbook of Names and Naming' (2016)

(All emphasis is mine)

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    (Note that from a programmer's perspective, a society with a strong taboo on giving their names to outsiders is just as much of a problem as a society that doesn't have names.) Oct 7, 2019 at 20:56
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    @user3757614 Nah, they just need a taboo device in addition to a regular device. That way they can enter their PII securely.
    – kubanczyk
    Oct 8, 2019 at 7:17
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    In many societies, from ancient Rome to Victorian Britain, naming women in certain situations was considered impolite. Even into the 20th century, if a woman was the other party in divorce proceedings, she was not the "co-respondent", as a man was, but "the woman named" (in the petition) - the action title would be *Smith v Smith and The Woman Named *.
    – TheHonRose
    Oct 9, 2019 at 3:45
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    According to the elders running my niece's naming ceremony, Osages didn't actually give first-born daughters names, aside from a specific name meaning "first-born daughter". Presumably that was just official names though. When talking amongst themselves, one imagines the women had to have names they used. I'm pretty sure I've seen women's names in La Flesche's dictionary.
    – T.E.D.
    Oct 9, 2019 at 21:50
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    @TheHonRose: if by "certain situations" you mean "divorce cases or other potentially libellous allegations", that's hardly representative of the culture in general. The fact that the UK has the most punitive libel laws on the planet probably has more to do with it than culture. Witness the farce of the 2011 super-injunction granted to footballer Ryan Giggs to prevent reporting on both his identity and his affair with Imogen Thomas
    – smci
    Oct 10, 2019 at 6:22

I know its been a while, but it's a tribe in the Amazon, the Matsigenka.

  • HAve you got any source to link to back up this claim ?
    – Kepotx
    Jan 7, 2021 at 15:54

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